Should People Be Able to Discriminate Against Caregivers?

     Sometimes people who are in need of a caregiver insist on a particular race, gender or sexual orientation.  Should this be allowed?  Most states have a version of the Patient's Bill of Rights, which gives patients the right to weigh in on the care that he or she receives.  In some states, these rights include the right to an "accommodation of individual needs and preferences."

     However, two recent Court of Appeals cases struck down the ability of a nursing home to thwart care from certain caregivers based on the discriminatory preferences of the patient.

     What do you think?

No One is Immune From Aging

An increase in the awareness and empathy for seniors will not only benefit seniors but will also prepare ourselves for the inevitable.  With the exploding elder population, there is an endless supply of organizations who need young, vibrant volunteers!  Get out there and help someone; you will be amazed at how much difference a little help will make.

End-of-Life Decisions

Have you talked to your spouse/partner/family about your end-of-life decisions?  Have you even thought about your end-of-life decisions?  The advancement of medical technology can keep someone alive for a very long time.  Is that what you want under any circumstances?  Who will make your decisions if you are incapacitated, temporarily or permanently?  What will you do if you are designated to make end-of-life decisions for a parent but the two of you never discussed his or her views on the subject?

Please share any thoughts or experiences.

Unethical Representation

An 89 year old woman was referred to me to provide her with legal advice about the probate of her son's estate.  After meeting with this incredibly astute woman, I discovered that her attorney had unnecessarily opened her son's estate and charged her over $30,000.00 in legal fees!  It is astounding to me that a professional would take advantage of someone in this way.

Have you had a similar experience?  If so, how did you handle it?